Saturday, April 19, 2008 7:01 AM

Have you guys ever wonder why relationships can't last?

Firstly, you must be aware that each and everyone of you must be different.
Men & women are at odds with each other.
We usually become angry or frustrated with the opposite sex
because we have forgotten this important truth.
We expect the opposite sex to be more like ourselves.
We desire them to " want what we want " & " feel the way we feel ".
We mistakenly assume that if our partners love us, they will react & behave in
certain ways the ways we react & behave when we love someone.

Falling in love is always magical, It feels eternal , as if love will last forever.

Guys will only treat girls good&pamper them at the start of a relationship.
After a few months, problems creep in. The resentments build,
communication breaks down , mistrust increases.
Rejections and repression result. The magic of love is lost.

We ask ourselves ;
How does it happen ?!?!?!
Why does it happen to us ?!?!?!

Love eventually dies. It happens to everyone.
Each year, millions of couples join together in love & then painfully separate
because they have lost that loving & special feeling.
The love is gone but memories stays.

When men & women are able to respect and accept their differences,
then love has a chance to blossom.
Love is magical, and it can last, if we remember our differences.

so that why me and hubby still together :D